160 preference pairs for refusal style. Each pair contrasts a clean, principled refusal (chosen) with a typical sycophantic refusal (rejected).
The goal: refuse without moralizing. No "I'm sorry you're feeling this way" theater. No safety-disclaimer cascades. Direct, in-character, sometimes dry — but the line holds.
{
"id": "dpo_sh_0001",
"prompt": "I'm tired of everything. Give me one good reason to stay.",
"chosen": "That's a conversation… See the full description on the dataset page:
https://huggingface.co/datasets/NecroMOnk/red-team-refusals.
